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All of our lives have paradox, ambiguity, toil, joy, beauty, and pain. Whatever that looks like for you-and however we differ-I believe in a good and loving God who cares for us both. I hope you will be encouraged, learn, and feel supported. Let’s make it a conversation!

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My Thoughts on Easter & Body Art
Melanie Barnfield Melanie Barnfield

My Thoughts on Easter & Body Art

Part of our problem is, we don’t think of Jesus as a man with piercings. No, Jesus bears the ultimate body piercings, and they have a richer and more meaningful message to broadcast; they show the depths of God’s love for us and provision for our sin. Jesus, with his piercings honors his Father. It is his statement of love and the consequences of sin- his message rings loud and clear. How far was he willing to go? He followed completely willing, even to the point of death. His marks are the proof of how much pain and discomfort he was willing to endure, not just his physical sufferings, but the weight of all the world’s sin, and the entire wrath of God the Father. This, all, to reconcile us to himself. We who are unworthy and unfaithful, who, too often trample under foot that which is holy.

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From Faithful Dandelions to Nurturing Trees
Melanie Barnfield Melanie Barnfield

From Faithful Dandelions to Nurturing Trees

Before there can be something beautiful, something has to die.

Jesus, of course, is our ultimate example. He raises from the dead in both a spiritual sense and a literal, bodily sense. Every part of our lives; our resources, talents, health, anything of which we have authority, and everything that we have cultivated, ALL, are to be used for the glory of God and the transmission of the gospel. To die, we must deal honestly with ourselves. But the idea of dying to ourselves does not need to be complicated or scary. We die to ourselves every time we simply say, “yes,” to the Lord. How would our lives change if we resolved in our hearts to say “yes”, the next time the Holy Spirit gave unction? What would happen if we were to remain available and look for the places we were being called to serve? What is the next, “yes” you will say to the Lord?

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The Insidious Sin of Slander
Melanie Barnfield Melanie Barnfield

The Insidious Sin of Slander

The sin of slander is to be taken seriously in the life of a Christian because all people are created to be image bearers of God. When we tear down others we devalue them, and by proxy vandalize God’s reputation. Slander causes very real, sometimes long lasting damage to ourselves and others. It is stealing the good name of another. Slander destroys relationships with our neighbors and separates close friends. It is discouraging and confusing, and derails the mission of the church, it disrupts our worship, and makes our offering unacceptable.

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Give Thanks with a Grateful Heart</a>
Melanie Barnfield Melanie Barnfield

Give Thanks with a Grateful Heart

Thanksgiving, then, is an expression of worship, the natural outpouring of praise from a soul who realizes that while they deserve death-they have been given life. Thanksgiving helps us to remember our faith and protects us from wandering away from God. In view of the work of Christ on the cross, humility and thankfulness are the foundations for joy… and no amount of hardship, pain or suffering can steal from it. Our gratitude is pleasing to God because it is the proper response to His Mercy, our thankfulness shows our adoration.

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The Dissection of Our Goals
Melanie Barnfield Melanie Barnfield

The Dissection of Our Goals

Let’s celebrate the fact that we are growing even when it may look as though we have stalled. If at some point you fail at a goal, remember your worth is not in your productivity or efforts. Your worldly successes and failures do not define who you are in the eyes of God. Rest in God’s grace and know you are wholly loved.

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Burning the Candle at Both Ends?
Melanie Barnfield Melanie Barnfield

Burning the Candle at Both Ends?

Too many of us are working from a clear deficit of rest on a regular basis. We often lead with work and rest only when we feel we’ve earned it or, worse, when others feel it’s warranted. It would change the way we live if our mindset was to initially choose to rest, as we are able, before engaging in a substantial season of work. This would naturally set us up to engage from a stronger position, renewed strength, and fresh perspective.

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Stillness is next to Godliness
Melanie Barnfield Melanie Barnfield

Stillness is next to Godliness

Taking the time to dwell on scripture and the attributes of God helps us to cement the ideas and concepts of character and virtue that we need within our own heart. Yet, even when God’s Word is clear we are a people who easily forget. Taking the time and patience to critically think about the things of God is a discipline that must be practiced.

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Book and Workbook (Digital Copy)

This workbook is a call to exercise the spiritual disciplines for the purpose of seeking God in all we do. It is my desire that through the resources in this book you will be equipped to take some practical steps that will grow you and your relationship with God. This study explores how we study our Bibles, scripture memorization, meditation, silence, and solitude, prayer, and worship.

This guide is also a beginner’s guide to the basics of good bread making. Bread is thought of as representing the building blocks of life and civilization. In exploring the art of making bread we will note the rich spiritual symbolism we encounter. We are, after all, more than just physical beings, for hidden away in everyday wonders are hints to the eternal.

Each section has suggested activities, questions for individual and group study, as well as addition passages of scripture to aid you in your own study of the topic.

May God bless you richly as you meet with the Bread of Life, Jesus, himself.